We ask ourselves a lot of questions about fellatio. And we do not always know where to find the answers. Are we forced to go through this step? Can we use a condom? Should we go all the way? A sexologist answers us.
Fellatio is an act often practiced before sex , or even outside. The partner feels desire and excitement at the idea of making others happy. In this framework of mutual respect, the act will be lived as a moment of sharing and not as suffered, forced or obligatory and therefore humiliating. To better understand this practice, Marie-Line Urbain, sexologist, reveals five taboo issues.
Is oral sex compulsory?
In sexuality, nothing is obligatory. No man should force his partner to give him a blowjob. This is a common practice that is frequently appreciated, preferably from both partners. Some people do not like to indulge in this preliminary considering the act as humiliating or degrading.
Others appreciate it because they will have the feeling of having the power over the partner’s excitement, to give him pleasure , which values them in their sexual performances and provokes their own excitement.
Do all men like this?
It is difficult to generalize, it depends on taste. Some men, because of the projections that they make on this practice, due to the pornographic films, associate the fellatio with an embarrassment. Especially when sexual relations are part of a serious relationship where the partner is idealized and respected … But in sexuality, nothing is dirty, everything is accepted if both partners share the same desire.
How do you get blowjobs with a condom?
Like any sexual act, oral sex must be practiced with a condom to prevent sexually transmitted diseases and infections. It is important to place it well. It must be ensured that the reservoir protrudes from the glans so that there is no break during the act. A tip: focus on condoms without lubricants that may have an unpleasant taste or scented condoms.
Does the wearing of a condom reduce sensations?
Yes, wearing a condom can reduce the sensation of the one who receives oral sex. On the other hand, it may help people who feel discomfort to feel semen or pre-seminal fluid in the mouth since it is blocked by contraception.
Should we go all the way?
Again, nothing is mandatory. The blowjob must not necessarily brought to ejaculation if the person who practices is not comfortable. It is an act that can be linked with other preliminaries such as masturbation or intercourse with penetration.