You have finally managed to get the first date and you really want to put the odds on your side for it to work?
Here are 12 things to avoid absolutely during a first date if you want to be able to have a second one …
1. DO NOT TALK AT ALL
If you are shy or impressed, you may not be able to speak …
However, it will be necessary to launch you and dare to articulate a few words, otherwise, you risk to miss this first meeting. That would be a shame…
2. TALK CONSTANTLY
Conversely, if you talk non-stop, and in particular that of you, your appointment may be wondering what he is doing there and want to shorten your date.
Try to ask as many questions as possible and talk about yourself, of course, but do not dwell too much on the details either.
3. TRANSFORM THIS FIRST APPOINTMENT INTO AN INTERROGATION
You are talkative, curious and you have read that the best way to seduce is to take an interest in the other.
Asking questions is a good idea, but do not make this appointment a real interrogation either, otherwise, your date may soon be uncomfortable.
4. TALK ABOUT YOUR EX SOUND
This is definitely THE subject not to be addressed during a first meeting … (or a second elsewhere).
5. ARRIVE 20 MINUTES LATE
It’s never very pleasant, and it may send him the message that you do not really want to see it.
6. CONSTANTLY CUT HIM OFF
It is very rude, and it has the gift of pushing the most reserved to close in their shell and to annoy all the others.
7. TALK ABOUT MARRIAGE OR BABY NAMES
Evoking your projects and goals is good. On the other hand, be careful not to scare him either because you want to go too quickly to work …
8. TOO MUCH DRINKING
Even if you are stressed, avoid drinking too much and stringing glasses of alcohol, it will not give you a very good image.
9. TOO MUCH
When we are not natural, it feels, and it does not inspire confidence. Be rather yourself, even if you are “too” shy, “too” talkative, “too” curious.
After all, if you really are like this, your potential partner will eventually realize it at one time or another!
10. SAY YOU STILL LIVE WITH YOUR PARENTS
Better to wait for some appointments to tell him.
11. SHOW HIM PICTURES OF HIS CAT
Or his dog. Or his guinea pig. Because unless he (or she) also has pets, it may not interest him much and let him think you do not have many other interests.
12. WEAR STAINED OR COMPLETELY WRINKLED CLOTHING
For a first date and as everywhere, the first impression counts a lot. Try to heal your outfit, it will only help you to seduce!